Actually, you don't have to tell me about any of those stages. In fact, I could probably quote you title and verse. Why? .because I've been there. So, maybe it will help if I tell you a little about my family and myself. I'm a retired airline captain for a major airline flying 757 and 767 aircraft. I have two children. My son, now 24 years old is an Eagle Scout and a professional tennis instructor at a 5 Star Resort in California. He was teaching at a w...