I didn't want a man to fall for me just because I had manipulated him into it and I certainly didn't want to change who I was just to get the attention I needed. I knew there had to be a better way. It was obvious to me that the women who were getting all the men were full of confidence and security, but I just didn't know how to get it. When I took a step back to re-evaluate myself and my past relationships I realized the void in my life did not need t...